They say there’s plenty of fish in the sea, but many singles feel like Cupid isn’t shooting those love arrows their way. If you’re one of those people who are trying to attract romance into your life, get over a bad breakup and fall in love all over again, the answer might be closer than you think.
Colin Christopher, a clinical hypnotherapist and author of the book Success Through Manipulation: Subconscious Reactions that Will Make or Break You, says if you feel your love life has lost its luster, don’t despair.
He says hypnosis and self-hypnosis is a game changer because it taps into the subconscious mind where all our thoughts, beliefs and emotions about love and romance are stored – so in other words it can literally reprogram how we feel about these things and change the outcome.
Colin says there are simple techniques anyone can do, and he calls it “The One Minute Love Potion.”
Here’s how it works:
– Pour a drink and relax – Pour your favorite drink and take a few sips. Find a quiet place like your bedroom, lie down, take deep breathes in and out, and become very relaxed.
– Seeing is believing – Get really clear of the qualities you want in your ideal mate. Write down what your ideal mate looks like physically, mentally and emotionally. Writing it down, seeing it on paper and reading it over and over again helps to ingrain it into the subconscious mind which acts like a magnet.
– Say what you want – As your picturing yourself with your perfect mate, recite verbal suggestions such as “I am a beautiful person who is worthy of meeting the man or woman of my dreams,” “I deserve to be happy and in love,” and “I can’t wait to find my soul mate, start a family and spend many happy years together.” The more you say it while you’re seeing it, the more you will believe it and attract it.
– Touch me tenderly – Adding a physical trigger brings it all together. As you’re visualizing it and reciting it, rub your fingers together or tap yourself lightly on the arm. Next time you’re out at a club or in a situation to meet Mr. Right, touch your fingers together to trigger the subconscious mind to attract your ideal mate.