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The one thing that men can envy women is the intensity and frequency of their orgasms. After all, females can achieve not only multiple but also different kinds of orgasms that last far longer than men’s. That’s why knowing how to give one should be every sexually active person’s obligation.
But there’s one orgasm that has been around for not so long but has already managed to gain quite a reputation among adults. An orgasm so intense that it makes women shiver when they hear its name. A blended orgasm.
But what is it exactly? And more importantly, how can you give it to your partner? In the article below, you’ll find the answers to these questions. Gaining such knowledge will allow you to make your partner experience the intensity she’s never felt before.
A long time ago, in the Galaxy far far away, someone had a fantastic idea of two simultaneous orgasms. And that’s how, by combining a clitoral and vaginal orgasm and making them more intense than ever, the idea of a blended orgasm was created.
But before we dig into how to give one, let’s find out more how clitoral and vaginal orgasms work separately.
Let’s start with clitoral, which occurs when pressure and repetitive motion are applied to a wet clitoris. Vaginal orgasm, on the other hand, involves the (in)famous G spot, which, when stimulated, leads to a climax. They both offer unique sensations, and every woman can experience them differently.
Vaginal, for example, can be sensed deeper in the body. Clitoral, on the other hand, gives a tingly feeling on the skin and brain.
In short, a blended orgasm occurs when a G spot and clitoral are stimulated simultaneously, leading to an explosive and unforgettable climax.
And if you’re not sure you can give them separately, remind the old rule that practice makes perfect. You can even try your skills on artificial clitoris before you proceed to the real one. You need a sex doll with a realistic vagina to help you find the G spot, like the one from siliconwives.com.
Such practice will allow you to save what’s best for your partner, ensuring that the way you give her pleasure will be mind-blowing.
Now that you know how clitoral and vaginal orgasms work, it’s time to promote yourself from a rank of orgasm padawan to a climax master by learning how to give your partner a blended orgasm.
First of all, learn how to multitask. Remember that you need to stimulate your girlfriend’s clitoris and G spot simultaneously, and that demands a combination of a few different things.
Deploy your fingers and tongue to work, and support them with a variety of sex toys. You can also ask your partner to give you a hand (literally).
Here’s an example of how you can proceed:
- Get in a comfortable position that gives you some support and leverage
- Slowly start warming up your partner
- Use one or two fingers of your dominant hand to focus on a clitoris, making them go in circles, or diagonally across the surface
- Add a G spot stimulation, by using your other hand to penetrate her vagina
- Proceed until she comes
It’s an example of how to give a blended orgasm using your hands, but as mentioned before, you can add your tongue or a sex toy to the mix. You can also achieve your goal by combining penetration and clitoris stimulation.
When it comes to sex positions that are best for achieving a blended orgasm, try spooning, cowgirl and reverse cowgirl, doggy, or closed missionary.
Try different techniques, positions, ask her questions to see how she feels, and don’t forget about one crucial thing – a lube. Adding a proper lubricant is often vital to making an orgasm even more intense, and you should always keep one somewhere near your bed.
Don’t be afraid to experiment too. Once you become more experienced, you’ll learn new techniques, and implement different variations that will spice up your sex life even further with a blended orgasm.
If the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, then a way to a woman’s heart is through giving her a blended orgasm. Who would’ve thought that all you have to do to make things even more intense is to stimulate a G spot and clitoris simultaneously?
Adding a skill of giving a blended orgasm to your weaponry is one of the best things you can do to spice things up in bed. It’s more intense, gives more pleasure, and lasts longer than any other orgasm.