Can a woman really control her man? There’s different opinions on that one, but one expert, who is a man, says not only can women control men, but they can do it in such a way that men won’t even know they’re being manipulated – and they can get their way with almost everything from knowing the truth, getting a second date and more.
Colin Christopher is one of the most popular stage hypnotists in North America, a certified clinical hypnotherapist and author of the book Success Through Manipulation. He says the power of the mind to control the body is one of the greatest tools we’re born with – and he’s teaching more and more women how to use mind-over-matter techniques to be the driving force in a relationship.
- · It’s not what you say but how you say it – the key is to use the power of suggestion in your line of questioning to get what you want. For example: “You will have another drink, won’t you?” Or “we’ll have another date next week, right?”
- · It’s all in the eyes of the beholder – It’s easy to tell if your man is lying because his eyes will react in certain ways. Looking left typically indicates a lie or a constructed image/sound, whereas looking right indicates a remembered image or sound, or the truth. When you’re telling a lie, your pupils also tend to dilate. Hypnotists use this technique to tell if someone is really under hypnosis.
- · Touch me tenderly – Hypnotists teach their patients to use a touch mechanism when trying to recall a particular response. This is a very simple technique that women can use with their men. For example: rubbing his arm anytime you really want to get your way. The more you repeat the action when you want something, the more conditioned he’ll become to give you what you want each time you rub his arm. You’re working on the subconscious mind to produce a desired outcome without the direct awareness of the conscious mind.
- · A picture is worth a thousand words – Women will have the upper hand with men by using imagery in their language to delve deep into the subconscious mind. For example: don’t say “don’t stay out too late.” Instead, say, “If you’re home early, I’ll have a nice juicy steak on the table with an ice cold beer in your favorite mug, and I’ll be wearing that dress you like so much.”